Have you been pressured to please others and it makes you confused? When God created you, He made you in His own imagine and likeness, and His desire for you is to be you, with a heart that follows after Him.
Think about it not even God can please everybody. Think about it when He sends the rain, there are those who are glad for it, and there are those who wish there was no rain. You do not need to please others to find happiness. Your desire should be to first please God who is your creator and to whom you will have to give an account one day.
If you allow God to order you steps, some will be happy for you, while others may be displeased. Romans 12: 1 - 2 says Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Step out of your comfort zone and strive to be a God pleaser